If you didn't know- Challenge

If you didn't know what you looked like. If you had never seen your reflection. How much more fluid would you self conception be? What if your only definition of you was how you felt and functioned? Could you go a week or a month, what about a year without a mirror, considering you bathed daily etc? Defining yourself by happiness, how you felt, and how well you functioned. How would this change your life? How would this change you?

Nothing Hidden...

There is nothing hidden that is not seen. Every thought, emotion and belief, true or false is broadcast for the world to see and mirrored in those around us. It is written in flesh, shouted in words and translated in action. We cannot lie. We may only deny. Truth of our accepted denial is seen by any with the eyes to see, the ears to hear and the heart to understand. We are only blind in the collusion with those who are also in denial and support our wounds, illness and victim hood. Know that where we suffer or are hurt by others, therein lies our denial, our lie, our inauthentic self crying out for redemption, for death, for rebirth as our true nature, our true self. With that tool, that lantern, the world and our shadows are visible plain as the beat of our heart that tells us we yet live and must live whole, authentic and free. Look and you shall see, seek and ye shall find.

Dear Boy's

Dear Boy's: I hear a lot of you talk about women as sluts and whores and easy because they fuck you on the first meeting etc. That they aren't worth time, your time, or feelings because they didn't value or respect themselves enough to fend you off, get to know you or perhaps if they are doing it with you then must be doing it with a lot of other guys.

What about your respect for yourself? You, this life is a two way street, a mirror of ourselves in the people, experiences and interactions around us. How is a woman to respect you if you just want to hop into bed with her without knowing who she is or who your sharing your energy with? If this is the kind of woman you attract, it says a lot about you. It says you are not willing or have not sought to know yourself. It says you are OK with being broken and looking for someone outside yourself to fix you. It says you do not love yourself or take care of anything beyond a basic physical surface level. It says your emotions are un-reached, your sexuality un-grown, your mental thought process is not open or changing etc etc. 

It is the responsibility of both man and woman to find partners willing to grow, change, mature and most importantly to move beyond level one sexuality, emotions, spirituality and physicality. Take your time, respect yourself and know yourself. Time spent on you and a woman is growth no matter the turn out, because you learn. Killing growth in yourself and enabling in others is immaturity, fear and insecurity. No man or warrior worth his salt would take such a shameful path or allow such disrespect of person, sexuality, emotions etc. Think about it. Stop blaming everyone around you and treat yourself with the respect due. Learn. Grow. Become a mature, wise and respected man.

Woman and Wealth

Money is masculine. Abundance is feminine. All things pertaining to money, its making, collecting etc is done through a masculine structure of work, buying, selling etc. Abundance is through natural flow, what is needed or wanted is traded, bartered, created and received or given. The problems with women making a rich abundant life is they equate it to money and try to bring it through that very rigid, structured, limited way. As women we are receivers, makers, creators, healers etc etc, work, money and all its structures are based upon the buying and selling of those creations, resources and free gifts of nature. THIS DOES NOT WORK. When manifesting abundance for your life it does not come from money or work, its comes freely as a trade of equal service and energy in a multitude of ways. Women who succeed in the money/work world end up men in woman skin suits to do so. STOP thinking like a man, let the money and work mindset go completely, learn to receive, knowing all things are there for you and will come whichever way is natural. Surrender to your inner cornucopia and allow manifestation which ever way it comes. We block this by expecting what we want to come via the masculine structure of money and work, this isnt natural or right. So when creating abundance, let the money go, its useless except to buy and sell living, growing, creations. It does not mean it will not come to you but it will expect to be used rightly for RESOURCES to create with, not finished creations. Manifest things, food, homes, etc etc and then be open and allow them to come whichever way they choose. Drop the money/work attitude, its killing your natural creative energy that brings abundance to you naturally. The more you create, the more you receive to create with.

On Being Feminine...

As women, when we run low, get tired or feel all used up, our response is "fight on", "soldier on" and "chin up, fight harder". And while there are times on the rare instance that that is the proper response, it is not the normal right response. This is a masculine response, not a natural feminine response. What this does is harden our hearts, dry up our creativity and saps our natural creation energy/power. The right response for our feminine body, is surrender. Now this isnt what its been made out to be by our society. Surrender is, being unmoveable like earth and flowing like water. Finding the calm unchangeable center, deeply rooted and diamond strength and from there release the burden, let go of the reins and like water see no resistance within and without that can be held, stopped or resisted. Become the heart of the ocean and create your own song, your own paradise, sing it, feel it, embody it and trust it is. And whenever you find yourself struggling, STOP, return to that place and live from within the magick of your surrender, its flow, its beat, its irresistable rhythm that nothing, no one can stop or change or resist. This is goddess energy, feminine energy, your birthright in this body, in this time. Stop imitating the male response that breaks and drys and limits the feminine limitless power of creation, life and love.

On Punishment

External security is a direct effect of internal security. When facing lawsuits, tickets or any form of governmental punishment, look internally for thought patterns along the lines of: punishment equals love (parental imprint), not following what you know to be right, allowing others to drive your actions etc, compromising truths or hiding/ignoring guilt, pain, sadness etc. When you are authentically you, following your own internal truth/security functions, the external "law" (right or wrong) has no interest in you. External law was established for those living in opposition to truth which is also in opposition to freedom. There is no punishment for those who do not punish themselves. All forms of punishment are outplays of this malfunction.

On Helping...

Helping, is the deeply entrenched idea that we can change someone else's life, thoughts, beliefs or feelings... No. You can inspire them if they choose to be inspired, love them if they choose to be loved, motivate if they desire to be motivated etc but YOU cannot HELP them, THEY help themselves. By choosing better ways of thinking, believing, acting, getting up, learning, optimism, hope, focus etc etc. The only help we provide each other is the mirror to see our own broken selves and with that view, a choice to walk away and forget, fix it by changing it, or beating ourselves up over it. Those we "help" are a choice to engage the broken in ourselves, so we can face it and hopefully heal it.